The principle that governs the government of God is service (ministry). Everything in nature serves something else in nature, with the exception of humanity because of sin. Selfishness takes away peace from the home and sows bitterness. When bothwife and husband agree to live by the principle of service, it makes the home a place of heavenly bliss. This experience is different from the principle of selfishness, where each person is looking out for their best interest, or to be happy without concern for others. The celestial bodies, the plants, the animals, and the environment exist to minister (serve) to our needs and happiness, and we intern ought to live with this same heavenly principle, especially in our homes.
Philippians2:2 Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, [being] of one accord, of one mind.
2:3 [Let] nothing [be done] through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
2:4 Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
2:5 Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
2:6 Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:
2:7 But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:
2:8 And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.
2:9 Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name: